Matrimonial Website

I joined this particular matrimonial website thinking that I could find someone nice. I did not post my photograph as I did not want the whole world to know that I am in search of a soulmate. Since there are no photographs, my chances are slim and I know it. It has almost been a month since joining as member and I have not gotten any response.

Two days ago there a man from Canada wrote to me to say that he liked my profile and we should communicate further. Ok, I thought why not..and let's give it a try. I thought, ok, there is finally a man who is not interested in how I look but seemed to be interested in my profile. I thought this man could be interesting to get to know. Yesterday, to my utter disappointment, he sent me a long list of questionaire to fill in in order to get to know me. Some of the questions that he asked was, "What is your favourite colour?", "What is the colour of your eyes?" "How do you solve conflicts?" "Would you give me a chance?" My excitement went down the drain after reading the list of questions. He claims that he could get to know me more if I answered the questions.

I totally disagree in throwing a list of questionaire at your partner in order to get to know her. It is so formal. I can just give him a bunch of lies and impress him. It is not as good as meeting the person or communicating with the person in order to get to know his partner.

Life is not predictable. I can say that communication resolves conflicts but I feel that it all depends on the type of problem and the situation that both of you are in and you have to handle certain problem tactfully or else, the relationship would be detrimental.

Ummm let's see how it goes..excitement has gone down the drain..and I will give up on my seach as it does not seem to be working for me.